Podcast
Startup Lawyers on Scaling and Culture with Paul Miller and Alistair Jaque
Paul Miller & Alistair Jaque join Steve on the latest episode of GiveIt A Nudge to talk about helping founders scale up their business and building culture.
About the guests
Paul Miller
Partner at Deutsch Miller
Corporate and commercial lawyer with over 30 years of experience. Originally from the UK, Paul founded Deutsch Miller in Martin Place, Sydney, after seeing a gap for a premium boutique firm serving founders and owner-managed businesses.
Alistair Jaque
Partner at Deutsch Miller
Corporate and commercial lawyer specialising in private lending, finance and ASX listings. After 17 years in Australia, Alistair joined Deutsch Miller for its genuinely collaborative culture and partner-led approach.
Episode overview
Paul Miller and Alistair Jaque from boutique law firm Deutsch Miller join Steve Grace on Give It A Nudge to share what they have learned advising founders through every stage of growth, from first seed raise to ASX listing.
A premium boutique built for founders
Deutsch Miller is a five-partner corporate and commercial law firm based in Martin Place, Sydney, with around 25 staff. Paul founded the firm 12 years ago after relocating from London, where he was a partner at a 70-person mid-market practice. The firm covers corporate and commercial work (fundraising, employee share option schemes, M&A, IPOs) alongside a litigation practice.
Co-founder pain and why alignment matters
Paul is candid about the early days when the original four-partner structure fell apart. That experience taught him that co-founder misalignment causes real damage, and he urges any founder considering a business partnership to explore doubts before committing. After rebuilding with the right people over eight years, the firm found its stride.
“If there is any doubt in your mind about going into business with someone, really talk about it, really explore it. Because it is painful. Everyone thinks they can handle it. But you can’t.”
Paul Miller [06:15]
From seed round to ASX listing
The conversation covers practical startup law: what founders should expect during a capital raise, how IPO preparation on the ASX really takes six to twelve months, and why the emotional roller coaster of M&A transactions is completely normal. Paul reveals that in almost 30 years of practice, fewer than five deals have fallen over once lawyers were at the table.
“You are only allowed to get worried if I am worried. And I am not worried.”
Paul Miller on managing client stress during deals [23:00]
Why culture is the competitive advantage
Both partners reject command-and-control culture. Paul believes collaborative, respectful leadership leads to better outcomes for partners, staff and clients. Alistair reinforces this with his experience of spending 13 years at a firm he loved, only to see partner relationships deteriorate rapidly.
“I was amazed that things could go so spectacularly wrong, so quickly. I never saw that snowball coming.”
Alistair Jaque on partnership breakdown [33:00]
“I fundamentally believe a good, collaborative, collegiate culture leads to a win for everyone. You don’t have to have that hard culture to be successful in business.”
Paul Miller on leadership [31:00]
Key takeaways
Chapters
00:00Introduction 01:15What Deutsch Miller does: corporate law from cradle to exit 02:00Paul’s story: leaving the UK to start a boutique firm 03:20Alistair’s path to Deutsch Miller 05:15The original partnership that did not work out 07:30How co-founder pain helps them relate to startup founders 08:58What makes Deutsch Miller’s culture different 13:00Services for startups: fundraising, ESOP, M&A and IPO 17:30Private lending, finance and ASX listings 19:30The real cost and timeline of an IPO 21:00Being guided through two business exits 23:20Why owner-managed businesses need a different kind of lawyer 26:40The emotional roller coaster of M&A deals 30:00Paul’s belief: good culture beats command-and-control 33:00Alistair’s belief: losing faith in partnerships and rebuilding it 36:00Why choose Deutsch Miller as your legal partner 38:30Why junior lawyers should join a boutique firm 41:00Future-proofing your career
Mentioned in this episode
Frequently asked questions
How long does an IPO take on the ASX?
According to Alistair Jaque from Deutsch Miller, the formal IPO process takes around three months. However, preparing a company for listing typically requires an additional three to six months, making the total timeline six to twelve months.
What does a boutique law firm do for startups?
Deutsch Miller provides “cradle to exit” legal services covering seed fundraising, employee share option schemes, Series A rounds, commercial contracts, M&A transactions, international expansion and IPO preparation on the ASX.
Why do co-founder relationships fail?
Paul Miller says co-founder misalignment is often ignored early because people believe they can handle disagreements. His advice: explore any doubts before committing. The original four-partner structure at Deutsch Miller had to be rebuilt after the founding partners could not align.
How often do M&A deals fall through?
In nearly 30 years, Paul Miller says fewer than five deals have failed once lawyers were involved at documentation stage. While M&A deals feel like a roller coaster, they almost always reach completion.
What is the difference between a boutique and large law firm for startups?
Boutique firms offer partner-led service where founders work directly with senior lawyers. The work is more collaborative and relationship-driven, and can be more cost-effective because experienced partners work faster on early-stage matters.
Topics discussed
Full transcript
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00:00 Introduction
paul alistair groundbreaking moment first time we’ve ever had anyone on the show wear a suit and we’ve got two of you at the same time very exciting very exciting moment for us i feel like we’ve grown up as a show today because we’ve got adults on it um welcome um so both of you are corporate and commercial lawyers for deutsche miller and you have a particular interest in the space that we work in as in startups
and scale-ups and accelerated growth businesses and we’ll talk a little bit about that but i think we’ll just kick straight into it because everyone wants to know why i’ve got two people wearing suits on the show so let’s just find out right now so paul let’s start with you tell us a little bit about deutsche miller and and what it is that you guys do so we are a premium boutique law firm we’re based in martin place we focus on two main areas the first is alistair my area which is corporate commercial work
so we do work from raising money employee share options schemes as companies grow through to fund bigger fundraisings
01:15 What Deutsch Miller does: corporate law from cradle to exit
buying and selling of different companies so anything really from cradle to exit um and people to exit i like i’ve not heard that before i like that there’s a difference in the cradle to grave bit yeah the graveyard yeah yeah i think it’s better well though it could be anyway carry on so uh and the other side of the business is uh litigation so we’re a five partner firm uh we’re the two corporate commercial partners and the other side of the firm is litigation that there’s a whole range of
of different type of things but we won’t talk about that today as we’re focusing on on our area on our area certainly and just to add it’s not only you know it it’s enabling the scale ups to go all the way through and the exits can be sale or it could be ipo that alice has got a particular experience in okay so before we get into sort of that you’re
02:00 Paul’s story: leaving the UK to start a boutique firm
one of the founding partners so you were there right at the beginning so just tell us just briefly what sort of inspired you to start a firm i believe you’re a equity partner in a number of very high profile successful firms both here and in the uk what made you leave that lucrative world of high-end legal firms to start your own your own firm tell me well i moved from the uk 14 years ago where i was a partner in uh
for london i’ve been amid market practice about a 70 partner firm i moved here into a premium boutique firm and a few partners there saw a gap in the market for a boutique offering where there’s a lot of owner managed businesses entrepreneurs high net worth investors you know mid even even mid-level listed companies that weren’t comfortable at big firms now i would certainly never come on here and insult any other firm
but sometimes there are different type of clients that are more comfortable different environments absolutely so so we felt that um we could give more more personal contact more personal service um in a more cost-effective environment with no sacrifice to experience our expertise so the three wins we saw it the three wins i like it and alistair you’ve been there for coming up i think about three years somewhere around there right now so um
what brought you into this firm well um
03:20 Alistair’s path to Deutsch Miller
like paul i originate from the uk uh i’ve been here uh 17 years now he’s on my trial period competition um so i yeah i started off over here uh at a large firm uh and then i moved into a medium-sized firm uh whereas a partner there and um things uh didn’t turn out as well as uh one would have expected um and i think
i’ve known paul um certainly ever since he’d moved over here and we’ve had mutual friends three years less than you obviously three years later yes he’s fresh off the boat um and uh you know we’d always talked about working together at some point in the future and when i was looking around at firms um i’ve always liked the premium boutique model yep um for the reasons that that um you know paul’s already uh explained um
it’s very um partner-led work we get very involved with the clients um you know there are different models of firms as you say and they all provide different different things where my sort of clients are and where um i think most of the work that the firm does in a boutique environment is very connected with the clients and they’re not necessarily institutional clients they’re much more owner-managed businesses and small
businesses that are scaling up quickly yeah okay so um it was always an attractive proposition for me to go um and work with paul i think if it hadn’t worked out that way i think probably paul would have ended up moving into whatever firm i was in at some point so i think it was inevitable we were going to work together destiny destiny that we’re going to work together this magical moment here i don’t even know if i can feel it
05:15 The original partnership that did not work out
the first iteration of partners didn’t work out and that’s not pointing fingers on on anyone sometimes you don’t get on or you don’t have the same vision you can relate to that very um and a lot of people can relate to that and it’s and it’s a real lesson
you know when we went in you know everyone thinks that they know everything at the time but to be on the same page as a people you work with the other founders of a business is is so important and if there’s any niggle in your mind what i take to anyone think about going to business with anyone else if there’s any doubt in your mind or if you feel you’re not quite on the same page really talk about that really explore that because it is painful everyone thinks i can handle it yep but you can’t
07:30 How co-founder pain helps them relate to startup founders
do you think that’s really sort of helped you relate to a lot of the the smaller startups and scale-ups that you’re dealing with do you think that you find that a lot easier to understand and help them through that process because you’ve literally been through it yourself look we we took a risk both of us but but i went into a new set up a firm two and a half years into this country which in hindsight was far too early
so i think a lot of clients see lawyers as people who who don’t take a similar risk and and i think i can empathize more than most laws of having you know i’ve probably got a bit more of an entrepreneurial spirit than the average lawyer but i’ve taken that risk i’ve gone through those sleepless nights
08:58 What makes Deutsch Miller’s culture different
what i was looking for when i when i wanted to move um two or three years ago was people yeah our business is a relationship business um and when both of us moved over here we came knowing no one yep right so all our relationships are back in the uk so you come here knowing no one you got to basically start again and it’s all about building up those relationships
as paul says when you’re in a firm particularly when it’s a small firm those relationships between the partners are absolutely critical if that doesn’t work the whole business will fail and we’ve all been in places where that’s happened yep and you’ve seen how easily it happens and the stress that it produces on you know everyone that’s involved
13:00 Services for startups: fundraising, ESOP, M&A and IPO
i started building relationships probably eight nine years ago in the technology space so i did start to work with a lot of fast-growing companies doing a lot of seed fundraising rounds and then moving on to series a fundraising round and a lot of employee incentivization schemes and then seeing the companies grow quickly it’s very rewarding as that advisor entrepreneur relationship
what we can give clients comfort with is that that we can grow with them and when they’re coming to their more complicated transactions whether they’re looking to take more senior fundraising whether it’s from an international vc or pe firm or whether it’s to exit which might be their most important transaction of their lives that they’re comfortable that their advisor has been with them is still the right advisor
17:30 Private lending, finance and ASX listings
i’ve probably done a little bit more on the finance space um so private lenders high net worth individuals can be family offices that have recently got into the lending space and also on the borrower side as well for the companies
since debt’s become obviously much more palatable so i’ve probably done a little bit more of that sort of work and then also ipos so when some of these obviously recently there’s been a lot of tech companies that are trying to list on the asx
19:30 The real cost and timeline of an IPO
it’s a proper six to twelve month process the actual process itself is probably only three months but to prepare for it to get the company in the right state it’s probably a good another three or six months
i think they’re shocked when they hear about the professional fees that are involved in listing not ours but the brokers and the accountants
21:00 Being guided through two business exits
part of our job is is to educate people the process you know why hasn’t someone responded with a certain a period of time to explain that it’s very normal um i think one of my partners says you’re only allowed to get worried if i’m worried yeah about the process and i’m not worried
it gets very stressful especially you know if you’ve built up your baby over a number of years and you’re sending it to someone else you’re worried about the staff you’re worried about risk you’re worried about whether you’re making the right decision
23:20 Why owner-managed businesses need a different kind of lawyer
those institutions are the people who are making decisions there it’s not their money yep it’s a very different mentality from an owner-managed business or a small founder who’s just started up a business when it’s their money it’s their baby they’ve built it up they’ve got much more concern
for the lawyers you have to have that mentality that you can align yourself with those owner managers rather than acting for an institution where it’s much more about relationships and about understanding the clients and making the decisions with them and holding their hands through the process
26:40 The emotional roller coaster of M&A deals
it’s the m a deals where it’s more of a roller coaster if you’re selling a business there’s always that moment where something happens that you try and foresee anything and everything and something comes out of nowhere might be a resignation of an employee it might be an ip issue that no one’s thought about
i’ve been doing this for almost 30 years in that time the number of deals that have actually aborted whilst we’ve been involved in them is well i can count them on one hand less than five once you get down to that level where the lawyers are involved it’s quite rare for deals to fail
30:00 Paul’s belief: good culture beats command-and-control
i would talk about culture because as you grow up through different law firms often the culture is not good and people think to have a successful law firm you’ve got to have a nasty tough control a very directive competitive culture putting everyone’s competitive timesheets each week
i fundamentally believe a good collaborative collegiate culture leads to a win for everyone and i’m including the partners in their profits i’m including the employees and their way of enjoying their day their learning their growth i’m talking about the clients from getting the better results
33:00 Alistair’s belief: losing faith in partnerships and rebuilding it
i was at a firm before deutsche miller for 13 years and culture was a big part of that firm and loved it i loved it there that’s why i was there for so long and i was amazed that things could go wrong so spectacularly and so quickly
moving and going back into that environment has kind of given me that sort of belief back again in people because the real shock is that i had assumed obviously mistakenly that all people all lawyers or senior lawyers professionals were you know normal
36:00 Why choose Deutsch Miller as your legal partner
there are a lot of lawyers that can technically do the job that you probably need for the fundraising or the particular transaction you have in front of you what i would say that i’ve probably seen more fundraisings than most lawyers over the last seven or eight years
it’s not only that deal it’s looking for the future it’s picking your partner to be able to go through the next many stages of your journey you don’t want to pick one lawyer for a seed fundraising round and go somewhere else for an employee share options scheme
38:30 Why junior lawyers should join a boutique firm
the breadth of work that we do in the corporate and commercial space from commercial contracts through to fundraisings through to m a work finance ipos we cover cradle to exit it’s a pretty broad range of work so there’s a lot of variety
we’ve also got the infrastructure and support that you’d get in a bigger firm but in a smaller firm environment where you’re going to get much more client contact even as a junior lawyer
41:00 Future-proofing your career
if you want to build up your own practice even as a one-year qualified lawyer and you haven’t started yet that’s fine but go somewhere where you can start to do that otherwise you end up being just another lawyer that is very good technically doing your job and that only takes you down certain avenues
gentlemen thank you very much it’s been a pleasure and it’s been much more fun than everyone expected both wearing suits the whole set was a little worried but it seems to have worked out okay
About the host
Steve Grace is the founder of The Nudge Group, a startup and scale-up recruitment agency. He hosts Give It A Nudge, where he interviews founders, investors and industry insiders about building and scaling businesses. Steve has personally been through multiple business exits and draws on that experience in every conversation.
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